Thursday, 20 October 2016

Key Differences Between Guidance and Counseling




Counseling is a more inward analysis, whereas guidance is much more external
· Counseling is in-depth, narrowing down the problem until the client understands his/her own problem, but guidance is broader and comprehensive.
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Natural inclination





Natural inclination comprises of two words “natural” and “inclination”.
Natural according to the oxford dictionary is defined as “existing in or derived from nature” while Macmillan dictionary defines it as “existing in nature and not produced or caused by people”.
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WHAT WILL HELP THE PARENTS LIVE LONGER




The desire of every man is to live long; no man will like to die early. Even the great educated elites that were past leaders of the world wished to finish their work before dying. Some of the leaders of the church that encountered God in the field of their work wished to finish their work before going to heaven. Example is st. Paul the great preacher of his time. But if I may ask, is there any time that is too early or short for a man to die? The answer is yes.
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Making wrong decision



When we were little we were asked questions like what we want to be when we grow up and our answers were like doctor, pilot, president, lawyer, and when we got a bit older we were asked again and our answers were a little more different from our previous answer, now again, what do u want to be when you grow up?.
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How to know the most intelligent one among your children



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There are various classes in this life. A president of a country is from a family and a poor laborer is also from a family, but the two are not in the same level. How old one is does not determine how rich in knowledge one is going to be. The first son/daughter in your family may depend on your last son/daughter financially in the future.
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Tuesday, 18 October 2016

ABILITY- see how it makes one excel in life via career success





Having seen the Natural inclination and its power to make one excel in life via career success when recognized and embraced by an individual concerned, ABILITY is also an essential factor that needs to work in harmony with natural inclination to successfully bring an individual into his natural environment for excellence.
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A tonic for husband and wife




According to Collins advanced learners English dictionary, tonic is defined as a medicine that makes one feel stronger, healthier, and less tired. It is anything that makes one feel stronger, more cheerful or more enthusiastic. 

Anything that brings peace and harmony between husband and wife is indeed a tonic for them. When I say peace, I don’t really mean that the two persons will never have one problem or the other that will make them feel uncomfortable. The two persons have different characters and different understanding. What the father sees as an offense may not be an offense to his wife.
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Monday, 17 October 2016

Diligence- combination of carefulness and long term effort



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While focusing on ones goal in life of turning ones natural inclination into a career; one also needs to be diligence. According to the universal life church “the diligence carries a zealous yet careful nature in their actions. They have a decisive work ethics, are steadfast in their beliefs, uphold their convictions at all times (especially when no one is looking) and do not easily give up.
Diligence is a virtue of hard work, and is indicative of a belief that work in itself is good”. Menander equally says “he who labors diligently needs never despair, for all things are accomplished by diligence and labors”.
Diligence therefore is defined by Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary, International Students Edition, as “careful and through work or effort”.
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must read- Focus



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Having known your natural inclination and ability, one also needs to be focused.
Focus according to the Collins Dictionary is defined as a point upon which attention, activity, etc is directed or concentrated.
Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary defines it as the center of interest or activity, an act of concentrating interest or activity on something.
Cambridge Dictionaries on the other hand defines it as the main or central point of something, especially of attraction or interest.
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Keep praying; dont give up



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This year calls for much prayer. There has to be an increase in your prayer life as compared to the previous year, you should keep praying about your desires and not give up until the answer comes. Don’t forget the fact that the effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much (James 5: 16). Be diligent in your prayer life this year and be determined to keep times of prayer with the lord. If the unrighteous judge could hearken to the persistent cry of the woman, God will certainly hearken to your prayer. When the answer does not come immediately do not be discouraged for the delay to your prayer being answered does not mean denial. Keep knocking at the door and it shall be opened.
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Sunday, 16 October 2016

Read now- Power In Giving



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Luke 3: 3- 5, 2 kings 4: 9- 16
Determine that you are going to be a very generous and hospitable person giving to God and man.
Giving attracts divine blessings; it attracts God’s attention to your problems. Solomon gave wonderfully to the lord and God in response asked him what he wanted. Indeed giving brings a release from God. Hospitality opens the door for reward as we can see in the case of the shunammite woman.
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understanding behavior modification




Before we talk about behavior modification, lets first of all understand what behavior really is, am going to give you different definitions of behavior.

What is behavior?
Behavior is actions, reactions and activity of man towards the environment.
Behavior is also referred to as anything involving movement in response to stimuli.
Behavior can be said to be any action of an organism that changes its relationship and provide output from the individual to the environment
Behavior can also be seen as action of a system or organism in relation to its environment, or response of the system or organism to various stimuli or input, whether internal or external, conscious or subconscious, covert or overt, voluntary or involuntary.
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Young men with wrong choices





After graduating from the university and I was serving my nation as a Nigerian youth service corps member, I had a friend h came to the orientation camp as a Christian. He was even our “Christian corpers’ fellowship” zonal representative.

When we got to our place of primary assignment, there was a choice we had to make. We met some people who said they were welcoming the new corps members with a party. I declared to them that I am a Christian; I took my stand and told them that I have nothing to do in partnership with unbelievers; of course, they mocked me and laughed me to scorn.
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What determines what a child will be in future







Surely, the future of every nation strongly depends on the character of her present generation. If the people are the type that inherited ugly character from their parents, it means that the nation is going to suffer.

 The same problem they encountered will continue to grow at a higher level. The only thing that will make that nation have a better generation in the future is to find a very good way to stop that corruption. What about a father/mother that has a child that inherited one/two ugly character from him/her? Is it not surprising to see a child that behaves like his/her parents? The truth is always clear, any parent that understands his/her poor character will regret about it.
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Must read- What will make your children marry late



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One of the happiness of every parent is to be alive to see their children marry in time. Once parents celebrate their children’s marriage at the right time, they will be alive to see their grand children. Do you know that children are a blessing from the God|? The bible says that children are blessings from the God (psalm 127-3). 

If you happen to see your grand children or great grand children, it’s like entering from to joy (Nehemiah 8 vs. 10).  There are many things that will deny you the privilege of seeing your grand children. Any child that does not attend secondary school especially the higher institution in this present generation will suffer the problem of late marriage. Some people use the time their children are supposed to be educated to use them in making money.  Engaging them in one little business at their tender   age will not help them in future.

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What can make you have an unwanted baby



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Can there be a baby that is not wanted? The answer is no. Every child that comes into this world has something special in him or her. It might be for good or bad, but what is important is for you to understand that no child is unwanted.
Every reasonable man plans very well before doing anything important.
Parents that want to enjoy their peace of mind in this life should think of the number of children they are going to have.
The number of children Mr. A has may not be the number of children Mr. B will have, this is because Mr. A may have money to train up to j children, while Mr. B has money to train 5 children.
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WHAT EVERY PARENT MUST KNOW

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Every individual that is alive should always understand that there is time for everything in this life (Eccl. 3- 1). The more you are living in this world, the more you are approaching your grave, what you are able to do today, is what you may not be able to do tomorrow as a result of sickness or old age. Having knowledge of this will enable you to plan ahead. Do you know that any man that does not train his children to the higher institution or in a very good business may not receive help from his children? You may ask why, if a man trains his children in the university and in a good business but has no reserve for himself could complain of not receiving enough from his children, what about those that did not train their children to such levels? Well, the children cannot be blamed because they have their own families to cater for which is more important to them.
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WHAT ARE YOU KNOWN FOR



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Apostle John spoke to Gaius and commended him for the testimony he had amongst the brethren, the brethren testified of the love Gaius showed and how he was walking in the truth.
If people are to come around you, what will be their testimony concerning you? Will they testify that you are walking in the truth? Will they say that you are loving and generous? Have you ever sat down to think of the impression you had left before members of your family, your business colleagues, members of the church and neighbors? People are certainly observing you every day, are they saying “forget that hypocrite?”
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