A tonic for husband and wife

According to Collins advanced learners English dictionary, tonic is defined as a medicine that makes one feel stronger, healthier, and less tired. It is anything that makes one feel stronger, more cheerful or more enthusiastic. 

Anything that brings peace and harmony between husband and wife is indeed a tonic for them. When I say peace, I don’t really mean that the two persons will never have one problem or the other that will make them feel uncomfortable. The two persons have different characters and different understanding. What the father sees as an offense may not be an offense to his wife.
Then when there is such a misunderstanding, the one that feels offended will retain it in his/her heart. While the other partner will not even show any sign of unhappiness. But can the one that is not happy hide it? It is not possible when one is not happy, it must show on her body after some time. Even if it does not show on her body, he/she will make it known one day, but how long will this state of unhappiness last? It continues from time to time, months to months, even year to year until what supposed to be done is done.

People take time to think about the type of person they are going to marry, but they don’t take time to think about the person they wedded with. Any man/man who doesn’t understand fully the type of person his/her partner is will always have problems with him or her. Majority of couples that got separated after their wedding were not because they didn’t love one another from the beginning, but because they failed to study each other. How can one have good understanding of their partner after they have wedded? Surely, people believe that some men/women hide their ugly character until after their wedding.

But if I may ask that person that hides his/her character, does the person want peace in his/her family? If yes, that person must do what he/she supposes to do to find peace in his/her family.

Any husband and wife that are not having things in common have problem of denying themselves a tonic life. Again, any parents that do not live in peace are not going to stay long in this world. This is because your peace of mind has a lot to do with your life span, how can one enjoy one’s peace of mind? This is very simple. Before you do anything you want to do in this life, make sure you ask yourself whether what you are about to do is good. If it’s not good, do not do it, but if it is good go ahead and do it.

After doing it, be ready to prove to anyone that asks you about your action. Even if that person is under your control, be patient to explain to him/her what you did. Some people believe that the best way to gain peoples mind is by using force. But any person that agrees to obey your order out of persuasion will surely disagree one day. The best way to gain somebody’s mind is by dialogue between two persons where they do not have something in common? Therefore; any parent that wants to have a peaceful family must always have issues in common. They must have time to stay together in prayers with their children. Before or after prayers, if there is anything wrong between either the children or the parents it must be settled rightly.

The children need to be eating together, so as to develop easily the spirit of unity. It will also help to avoid wastage and to know who is who. Coming to the side of parents, it is a must that they should form the habit of eating together. Anything that is coming out that time is what the family needs to be in peace and love, in fact, I want to specifically emphasize the importance of the parents having some issues like bathing, eating, sleeping together. Do you know that the life of a partner can be saved by one’s partner, by the two sleeping in a room? Surely, any parents that are sleeping in a room must one day experience what will make them understand the benefit. Do you know that a man/woman who uses to sleep naked during heart period can wake up from his/her sleep and go out of the room without putting on a single clothe on his/her body? It is possible, but can be corrected if the other partner is there.