What can make you have an unwanted baby

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Can there be a baby that is not wanted? The answer is no. Every child that comes into this world has something special in him or her. It might be for good or bad, but what is important is for you to understand that no child is unwanted.

Every reasonable man plans very well before doing anything important.

Parents that want to enjoy their peace of mind in this life should think of the number of children they are going to have.

The number of children Mr. A has may not be the number of children Mr. B will have, this is because Mr. A may have money to train up to j children, while Mr. B has money to train 5 children.

Really, the number of children one has does not matter. It is the ability to train the children that matters. If a man is able to train one child very well, it is better than a man who fails to train his ten children. The upbringing of a child does not need only money, but also needs many other things. But the reason money is one of the basic things in the family is because it helps in feeding and paying children’s school fees. If ones children are not educated in this generation, it will be a problem to them.

 Assuming one proposes to have 5 children and one of his/her daughters gets pregnant b an unknown person, will the children of the man or woman still be five? Of course not, and then will the parents of the child be happy?

The parents won’t be happy because their daughter has changed their plan for them. Therefore, for you to avoid such an ugly experience, these are what you should do while bringing up your children. Stop your male and female children that are up to age of reasoning from sleeping in the same room. Do you know your carelessness can make your children to be living the life of married people in your house? I know a family of ten children; the parents had eight children among the ten, while their eldest son impregnated his younger sister and got a child making them nine.

Then one of the daughters of the family got her own pregnancy from a poor boy who cannot claim the baby, making them ten in number. Now, the family is suffering from a very serious financial problem and their children are becoming wore, character wise. If you have male and female twins, be very careful in bringing them up. Begin in time to make them know they are not of same sex. There are many ways you will do this, you could do this by buying different clothed of their sex, you could also do that by separating them when there is need for that. Most importantly, don’t form the habit of buying anything in uniform for them. Giving your unnecessary freedom is dangerous. What benefit will it give you? It will enable your children not to know much about the evils that are happening among them during the nights and days, during the nights, don’t send them to buy something for you especially at a late hour. But if I may ask, will someone who lives in a one room apartment with his/her children be able to maintain the rule above? It will not be easy for him/her, because the children will make him/her worry always. Being worried will make the person to send them out of the room for a while. By so doing, one day the children will go beyond their boundary.

At the same time, will everybody be living in a flat or house alone? The answer is no, but who wants to be such? If nobody, it means that the correct living belongs to those who are careful and hardworking. It doesn’t matter what one is doing as a business. If a barrow pusher can manage to get up to one thousand five hundred naira everyday in his job, he is capable of renting a good apartment. The only problem is that an unwise man getting such money may end up spending seven hundred naira in a “beer palour” each day after his work. Another question is, will one’s children always remain in a flat or house without going out to meet other children somewhere? The answer is yes, if you are not sure enough whether the children they are going to meet have good character. The children that are under your control will easily be free from corruption. But will you also control them in the school? You will not do that, but the teachers the children are entrusted to are expected to do that. Even if they fail to do that, the training you are giving to them in your family will help them.

Family is the first place a child is taught before going to the school. If you fail to train our and the teachers in the school fails to train them also, that means that the children will be of no use to you in the future.