Making wrong decision

When we were little we were asked questions like what we want to be when we grow up and our answers were like doctor, pilot, president, lawyer, and when we got a bit older we were asked again and our answers were a little more different from our previous answer, now again, what do u want to be when you grow up?.

Today I am able to answer this question correctly without guessing not because I am perfect or because there’s something specially prepared for me, no, I am able to give a good reasonable answer to this question without an atom of doubt in my mind because I have made a lot of mistakes and I have made a lot of wrong decisions, I have been to the wrong places and I have had a lot of positive and negative experiences, and those experiences, those decisions, those choices have given me the opportunity and ability to know what I really want.

Sometimes we have to make mistakes, pick the wrong train and get stuck somewhere, fall in love, change your mind over and over because nothing is permanent, make as many mistakes as you can, that way someday when they ask what you want to be you won’t have to guess because you will know.

If you are driving to a destination for the first time you will find it difficult to locate the place, you will have to ask around, get confuse or miss your way perhaps, and it will take a lot of time before you eventually arrive. But when you travel to the same destination again you will be able to locate the place without much stress, you can now go without any help from someone because you have been there before.

You have been there before and you probably failed, you were afraid but now you are now stronger, better, wiser and smarter, a master of your own decision, not confused or afraid, and that’s the thing with making wrong choices.