WHAT WILL HELP THE PARENTS LIVE LONGER

The desire of every man is to live long; no man will like to die early. Even the great educated elites that were past leaders of the world wished to finish their work before dying. Some of the leaders of the church that encountered God in the field of their work wished to finish their work before going to heaven. Example is st. Paul the great preacher of his time. But if I may ask, is there any time that is too early or short for a man to die? The answer is yes.
The bible in the book of psalms chapter 90 vs. 10 says that the life span of a man is seventy years; if it is more than that it becomes a favour from God. This promise is for anyone that does not o contrary to the original plan of God. The original plan of God is to beautify the family with what I already described as a father and mother.

When god created man, he discovered that it would not be good for the man to live alone; he made a woman who would be a helpmate to the man (Gen. 2- 18). Among everything created, none of them made Adam happy until what is called a wife was given to him. The presence of a woman in the life of a man means that the couple exercises the love among them.

How can this be done? It is what can be done without a specific formula, but I want to emphasize the need to have a good understanding towards sex. Every sex any of the partner is not satisfied is not balanced, the two persons, husband and wife must be fully satisfied, if you or your partner is not satisfied try to find out the reason and do what you are supposed to do it is the duty of a man to take care of his family financially, I love men that can be fully responsible for that, But in a situation where the father cannot do that effectively, the mother can help him. Gone are the days when women are not dealing in business that can yield money.

The two persons have different stars and talents, the star of a wife may be far greater than that of her husband and she folds her hands waiting for her husband to do his work while she has a lot of money in her account. Do you know that any man that is not financially balanced and does not receive any financial help from his wife is not going to stay long? This is because the man will always be in fear and unhappy.

The parents that are living together can sometimes be disappointed as a result of sudden death of a partner, nobody wants to lose his/her partner, no matter how bad the person may be, unless the person is not responsible. But it is clear that apart from accidents of any type, one person must first die, the number of years every person is going to stay here has been numbered before the coming of the person. Some will stay long, while some will have limited time to live. This limited time may be as a result of one sickness or the other; it may also be as a result of carelessness. Do you know that God is the owner of our lives, but we control it just like a driver controls his/her car? If the driver decides to drive his/her car into a river, the car will disappear from him or her.

Some people out of carelessness and foolishness die before their original time of death; do you know that a married man can die on top of a woman that is not his wife? When such a thing happens, what do you think will be the condition of his wife? Do you also know that a woman that is not patient enough can die in a road accident, just because she is going from one man to another that is not her husband? Well, I just want to emphasize the need to understand why a family is made up of two persons, a father and a mother. When one dies, the remaining partner will not be happy. Unhappiness makes one to die early, because the source of joy has gone. Can a hired person restore the joy? The answer is no and will always be no, any dog one hired from its owner, will always complain of going back to its master. But if you want to be free from its disappointments and embarrassments, you will think of buying your own which you will train to be what it should be.

Surely, when a dog comes into your house, it will make you happy, and the dog will be proud to answer any name the master chooses to call it, but can a hired dog answer another name that is not his own name? if no, it means that hiring a dog is of no need.

At the same time, if a dog can behave like that, what about human beings that is more autocratic and more dangerous? A woman that lost her husband and has no responsible and capable daughter /son that will take care of her should not go and bring a man even as a driver to take care of her, especially on domestic affairs, she can only get s driver when she has already gotten maid who is going to serve her. Again, such a driver will not be living in a flat or room with her. Coming to the side of man which is more serious than that of a woman, a man that brings a maid to serve him as a result of the death of his wife is giving the devil a chance (James 40- 7).

Really the roles the type a woman will play when there is a fellow woman in the house. But when there is no fellow woman that will checkmate her movements, something is going to be wrong. If you buy a little cat and keep in your house, no matter how you are petting it, one day it must think of freedom. The worst part of it is that, that freedom will end up in your house. A man that lost his wife is expected to give his late wife at least two years, before thinking of going into a marriage with another person. But must it be everybody? The answer is “capital no”. it is for people that can pay the price.